Here’s Why Fear Kills Many Romantic Relationships

Fear is the common ingredient for all recipes leading to suffering

By Daniel Hannah in Pixabay

“How can I be sure that he’ll want to be with me before going further?”

“I don’t want him to know that I like him.”

Letting fear guide your behavior it’s a recipe for suffering

The curse and blessing of romantic relationships

“We fear things because we value them. We fear losing people because we love them. We fear dying because we value being alive. Don’t wish you didn’t fear anything. All that would mean is that you didn’t feel anything.”

— Cassandra Clare

Emotional maturity to hijack your inherent mode of attachment

The only permanent thing in life is the impermanence of things.

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